of confidantes and showing up….

Good evening y’all, so clearly i have not yet gotten faithful to my blog page but i am getting there.i do not want to give excuses because as someone once said, you will always make time for the things you love.so….working at showing up daily for my dreams….

i just learned something.know like one of those light bulb/eureka moments?i jst had one and it’s like i could here God go like ‘you just have to insist to learn things the hard way even when i give you an easier way out?’a smile. and i acted all tripple c….cool calm n collected.back to the lesson.

not everyone is really interested in your issues or your problems.most of them will listen to you just as a way to get the latest pice of ‘gossip’ on what’s happening but very few actually are interested.so keep your confidantes very very few and make sure they are people you knw actually care about you;not those who pretend to care.you will know someone who cares about you coz they can’t help but just care.

i am too trusting and too quick to complain to anyone and everyone and i have finally let it dawn on me that i cannot do that. i cannot rant to everyone,no matter how much i have been wronged…it was a bitter root to swallow but well, we learn from our mistakes and become twice shy and better people,right.

i have also learned not to shy away from my mistakes because everyone has their own;no one is perfect.you may pretend to be,but we all know better.so you know what,some of them are quite embarassing but no one ever died from embarassment, so i have figured i will survive so it’s ok.

so yeah,i’m having a crazy day but i have made time to share with you my two sense for today and that is me showing up even if it’s for 5 minutes,it makes a difference!so even you,do not allow excuses to come between you and that thing/person you so love.24hours in a day,you most definitely can make time.




One thought on “of confidantes and showing up….

  1. I don’t drop many remarks, but i did a few searching and wound up here of confidantes and showing up…. imperfectous. And I do have 2 questions for you if it’s allright. Could it be only me or does it seem like a few of the comments appear like they are written by brain dead people? 😛 And, if you are writing on other sites, I’d like to keep up with anything new you have to post. Would you make a list of the complete urls of your community sites like your linkedin profile, Facebook page or twitter feed?

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